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AREA OF OBSERVATION - DOMESTICITY
The sap is up..........
If there are no new clothes, no fairs; no
cricket pitches no standards to be reached, no
country to be explored, no vision?
Then cars will be stolen and trees will be
destroyed.
Teenagers may not easily recognise that the
sources......... are in the deep inter-personal
relations within the family. Interruption may lead
to inconspicuous privacy-guarding walls which in
time may completely inhibit the easy give and take
(communication - drugs etc.) Children fight for a
while by being nuisances, bad tempered or ill, but
if these strategies have no success they give up
and are abandoned to despair. Family communications
are severed (F.M. as family) and perhaps in
spring-time alternative solace in pastures foreign
to the standards of their home is found. (Sought or
imagined)
For the young need someone to talk to, to listen
to, to quarrel with. Everyone needs the opportunity
to give and receive confidences, someone with whom
they are emotionally interwoven, whom they subtly
control and are controlled by. Without this
children are out of hand. Without this social give
and take we pay a heavy price later in mental
hospitals and prisons. The child who cannot sin and
quarrel safely in the family and still be loved is
not free to gambol in the spring.
Because he hasn't had his time he may
mortgage the future.
The prisoner does time.
Jocelyn Peters May
27th 1962. Observer and D.P.H.!
(Dr. Edna Oakshott)
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